Its not about the easy street, its about Love!

The day of the marriage, I said my vows to the love of my life. Which is Maggie, the one I accept as my other half and will always love. A part of marriage is growing with each other and sacrificing everything for them, even if they don't for you.

You will never stop learning about each other, and should always be with each other, for rich or poor, good times and bad, sick and in health, etc. Everyone wants the easy street in a relationship but it doesn't always happen that way. Their will be struggles and some have it more than others.

You have to be strong if you want to be in a relationship and not be selfish about it. No matter the situation, everything I do, I do it for Maggie. I'm rarely selfish and I only do the things to help the relationship grow.

To many times I see celebrities get married too quickly and end up in a divorce, I don't believe any of these celebrities have good faith with the lord. I believe most divorces happen because of the lack of desire to work out the relationship with each other and everyone wants to take the easy way out because they are selfish and not thinking about the other first!

All I got to say is I'm not happy with how some (not all) of my family and friends have encourage me to take the easy street and end the relationship. That's like saying I should run away from life and jump of a building.
When I look for help, I look for positive moral support help. Talking with other instead of a marriage council is the worst thing I ever done.

Hand full of people told me that "their is better out there", don't see how that is positive. To all those that feel that way can piss off! I don't care if I reply something back that is harm full to you after you say their is better. I don't appreciate people that don't accept my other half. For those that don't accept my other half I bet them that my relationship with Maggie with last longer than all of their relationships combined!

My Love and acceptness for others is growing all the time with the help of the lord. Look at your self in the mirror and ask your self, are you a lover, acceptable, kind person to others? Or are you full of hate, selfish, looking at love in the wrong way, and not an acceptible person? If you accept me, you'll accept me and my wife as one. Do not come into my court to destroy what the lord has given me as you should worry about your own business!

Basketball????? Blunder!!

To tell you the truth, I don't understand why basketball is popular these days. College basketball and high school basketball is cool but the NBA??? The NBA puts me to sleep. I'm ok going to the Bucks game but I can't stand too much scoring in a game. I how do you get excited seeing the same thing over and over again. He scores, He shoots hes scores, He shoots hes scores, He shoots hes scores, He shoots hes scores, etc.

I enjoy Hockey more because of less scoring, the big hits, the bloody fights, the amazing deking, and amazing goalie saves. Don't forget hockey fans are louder than basketball fans. Maybe the reason basketball is more popular than hockey because its more family friendly than hockey. In Basketball their is no hitting, no fighting. The halftime shows are good, the cheerleaders are hot, and the dunks are cool.

Overall, Hockey and Chess are 100X better than basketball!

Resident Evil Series/movies

I am a big fan of the Resident Evil games. I have beaten RE 1,2,3,code veronica,4, and 5. The story line for the game is fantastic and I hope they keep making more RE games. I just wished the movies were just as good as the games.

So far the only good RE movie is the First Resident Evil. It had nothing to do with any of the game characters and its just another part of the drama taking place. The second movie was cool until the end of the movie. The Third movie does not make much sense at all. Does not follow the game in the story line way. Making crap up like 90% of the human population is gone.

The third movie is the worse of them all but the forth one comes out this weekend!?!? Also its only 90 mins long?!??! The game takes 2-4 hours to beat at fastest but they want to cut to the chase and make a quick buck out of the 3D stuff. I just hope this movie does not suck.

I'll be watching the first 3 movies this week and will leave the pro's and con's of each movie in the comments section. Please leave a comment if you want!

NFL Predictions!

I'm making predictions on what I believe will be the division winners and who will be the wild cards before the season starts. I wanna see if I'm any good at these pre-seasons predictions?

Lets start with the AFC!

Winning the East will be the J.E.T, Jets, Jets Jets!

Winning the North will be the Ravens. I feel this will be a strong offensive team!

Winning the South will be the Colts. This will be a close race with Texans and Titans in the mix.

Winning the Weak West side! Broncos!

The Wild cards will be the Texans and Patriots.

I pick the Ravens to win the AFC!

Time for the NFC!!

Winning the East is the Redskins! Dallas, Philly, and NYG will struggle against the Skins!
The toughest divison this year! North! Packers win the North over Tie breaker over the Lions? Yes I said the Lions!

Winning the South will be the Falcons just by a hair!

Last but not least the West is won by the Seahawks!

Wild card teams are Saints and Those Lions!

Winning the NFC is the pack!

Winning the Superbowl Packers 35 Ravens 24!

2 weeks to go till the wedding!

Sorry to the few that reads my blogs. Too many things going on latley and wanted to update this. I'm feeling the pressure now and the wedding is right around the corner. Money is tight and its a struggle sacrifice so the love of my life and I can celebrate as big as we can aforid.

Everyone is different in many ways, some will have the planing easy and some will have it hard. Had some people droping out of the wedding in the last 6 months and some guests are not coming. I would only suggest that if anyone wants most of their guest to come to their wedding, I would say have it on a saturday.

Fridays are cheap and will save you money, but you might not get as many guest as you like. As of right now its a little stressful for my love and I because were not having as many people coming to the wedding as we like. Were still getting plenty of people but alot droped out and I'm very sure its because its friday.

My goal is to keep everything as positive as posible. If i'm positive, this will help keep the wedding planning less stressful and will keep my love a little more comfterable with the wedding.

We are also both excided that the wedding is only two weeks away and we both been waiting 2 years for this big celebration to take place. Both my love and I have exciding plans during the repcetion and hope everyone will be entertained!

Logging off!
BenC

Goals for lent!

Starting wednesday is the start of Lent. Going to an early mass for ash wednesday and will start my goals of what i'm giving up for lent. I'm currently 197Lbs and the goal is to get between 170-180LBS. So one is no fast food during lent, only exception is maybe once in march to have cheese pizza on friday from pizza hut, as long as I work out all of that week. Also one of the sundays i'm planning on going to Hooters after getting my tuxedo sized up, which will be at the end of march!

The Second one is no Soda during lent. This will make me drink more healthier and it will not kill my teeth. I was successfull last lent with giving up soda so i'm gonna do it again! Overall i'm giving up 1. fastfood, 2. Soda.

I also want to workout everyday but saturday, using that as my rest day! running every workout day, some will be alot more than other days. Working on my abs every workout day too. Some upper body, back, and leg workout during the week but thinking about doing the same amount of push-ups as sit up!

First one to comment, leaving your name. Will get a drink on me this weekend. Also I will buy a drink for a random person after lent, but you will have to also comment leaving your name on this blog(first name only).

Thanks everyone and have a happy lent!

What I Rank the teams in the NFL.

I am doing my own ranking of the NFL teams and would like to say who I think is the best and worst in the NFL.

Fantasy Football: Football's Best!

A fantasy football league on yahoo that was started by Brandon Hill. This fantasy football league has 10 teams that are battling for playoff spots and for the title. Their are prize money for the overall winner and maybe second place.

Current Standings:

1st.Smack your mamma! 9-1-0 5698 pts 2game winning streak
2nd.Brady & Willis INC. 8-2-0, 6108 pts 1game losing streak
3rd.AP All Day. 8-2-0, 6006 pts 1game winning streak
4th.Harders Heros. 6-4-0, 5572 pts 4game winning streak
5th.Playoffs?!! 5-5-0, 5649 pts 1game winning streak
6th.Slappy McNutter 5-5-0 5318 pts 2game losing streak
7th.What is football? 5-5-0, 5050 pts 2game winning streak
8th.Benzo38 2-8-0, 5251 pts 1game losing streak
9th.Bruce Lee 1-9-0, 4278 pts 3game losing streak
10th.Vultures 1-9-0, 4068 pts 5game losing streak

Jinx myself in hockey

Its never good to jinx your self in anything. I guess I had to learn the hard way and for some reason I keep on jinxing myself. As what I know its always have been in hockey game when I play as the goaltender.

Today, I was dominating making saves left and right. Making the other team angry because they can't put one in net. In roller hockey at Waukesha Skateland, we have two half's of 22 minutes long. When I was dominating during the first half, after 20 minutes went by. I made another save and the ref is like wow Ben your doing great, and I replied "I want my shut out!".

I just jinx myself, as a goaltender you never say the word shut out when your having one. The reason is because it haunts you back. After saying "I want my shut out!" a minute later I gave up a goal. Ended up losing a game that I played great at. This is not the only time I jinx myself as a goaltender.

About a season ago, back to back weeks. I had a first half shut out. I was talking to a ref and told him that I had a good chance of getting a shut out and this was too easy. Not long when the second half started, I get scored on a couple of times. With in the last two years, I had a shut out through the second half and with 8 minutes to go I got scored on because I was thinking about the shut out.

Only once in my life I got a shut out in a game and it was hard. I'm looking forward to another shut out in the future. During a scrimmage game last season, I think I had a shut out. Their was no refs and nobody knew if it went in or not but did hit the post so I think I had another shut out but only in a scrimmage.

So my goal is next time I'm having a shut out, I will not think or say shut out, otherwise the jinx will happen again.

My victory against the simal giver Mccutchin at the WCC!

For all you that can read chess notation. I'm black and Mccutchin is white. e4-e6, d4-d5, Nc3-Bb4, e5 -c5, (5) a3-Bxc3, bxc3-Ne7, Qg4-0-0, h4-Qa5, Bd2-Nbd6, (10) Nf3-h6(I feel this is my only mistake in the game, he now has c4! attacking my queen and after the queen moves, the bishop will take h6. But this never happened so I feel good.) , Bd3-c4!, Be2-f6, 00 - Nf5 (this move stops the bishop from taking h6) , exf6-Rxf6,(15) Ne5?-Ncxd4, cxd4-Qxd2( The queen is causing trouble!), Rfd1-Qxc2, Rac1-Qb2, Nxc4??(I think its a big blunder) dxc4, (20) Bxc4-b4, Rb1-Qa3, Bxb5-Bb7, Bd7-Bd5, Qe2-Nxh4(free pawn), (25) Ra1(chasing my queen around. He should try to find a way to defend his king side.) Qd6, Bb5-Rg6(watch out!), Ra6-Rxg2, White resigns. Mccutchin is a really good chess expert. He played 20+ player and I think he won most of his games.